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Top 10 Erotic and Sebsitive Parts of Female Body that Every Men Should Know

Posted by: Unknown Posted date: 12:14 AM / comment : 2 , , ,

As curiosity is part of our genetic makeup, most men remain curious as to what turns a woman on. What spot can we touch to drive her absolutely crazy? Well gentlemen, today's your lucky day because I have the top 10 answers.
Whereas it wouldn't take a rocket scientist to discover men's erogenous zones (the penis, the testicles and the anus), women get aroused through very diverse body parts. Ah women, what an exquisite species!


top 10 tantalizers

Let's get started on our journey through a woman's body, shall we?

 10. Inner Thighs
The inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking and licking. Just like the back of the knees, inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle them, you will turn her on like crazy.
Remember not to bite because the area is very sensitive and doing so would only cause her mild pain, which will, in turn, cause you plenty of pain.

9. Behind the Knees
Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, you'd be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees.
Be careful not to overdo it — the area, after all, is very sensitive and you must be careful not to make the sensation annoying by getting too rough or tickling her too much.

8. Buttocks
Yes, it's true. Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of the buttocks. But there's more...
Some women like having their butts licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). For those who shudder at the thought of sticking their tongues out at Uranus , I'm sure that anal penetration, on the other hand, sounds quite inviting, huh?

7. Nape of the Neck
Just breathing on this part of her body will give her goose bumps all over. So just imagine her reaction when you use your tongue or teeth to get her aroused.
Use your hands too; lift her hair up gently as you bring your mouth closer to her neck. Then, as you sink your teeth into it, pull on her hair slightly so as to give that "I want you sooo bad" impression.
This part of a woman's body is also a good place to start giving her that sensual massage you are famous for and no woman can resist.

6. Ears
Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing in her ear is acceptable, it's not what women enjoy most. Besides the aforementioned things that they like having done to their ears, women like it when you whisper in their ears.
Don't whisper things like, "Can you wash my gym shorts tonight?" Try to be somewhat erotic and give her the shivers up and down her spine instead.



5. Feet
Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Assuming that their feet have been properly cleansed, women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be pleasant for the recipient.
While some men cringe at the thought of wrapping their mouths around a body part that spends most of its day sweating in leather, many guys are actually pretty keen on the idea of giving their women a good toe lashing every now and then.

4. Wrists
This may come as a shock to most guys (women have wrists??!?), but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers. The next time you're getting into the foreplay of things with your woman,begin kissing and caressing her wrists and just check out how impressed and turned on she'll become!

3. Breasts (Nipples)
As I'm sure is no surprise to anyone, the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing.
Just as well, many women like it when their guys get a little rough with their little mountains , so find out how she likes it and give it to her the way she wants!

2. Vagina/Clitoris
The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the finger or, for the multi-talented Joe, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy.
For those who don't get that luxury, it's usually quite evident whether or not she's pleased with your performance. If she begins getting squirmy, make sure that it's because she's enjoying it and not because you're giving her that "annoying" feeling.
In the vagina, the G-spot may be a little difficult to locate, but some women find the search quite worthwhile. There is an area inside some women's vaginas that produces intense sexual feelings when stimulated. Once located, very gentle stimulation gives an incredibly pleasant and unusual sensation.

And the number one female erogenous zone...
1. Lips
Yes, it's true. If you know how to manipulate her lips just right through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.
And there it is, the top 10 spots that will drive her crazy. Remember that all women are different and have their own likes and dislikes. Get to know her body and experiment. There's so much more to women than just their sexual organs.

The 7 Sexiest Things to Do with Your Hands

Posted by: Hemant Verma Posted date: 12:01 AM / comment : 0 , , , ,

We all know the basic requirements for intercourse, but what about those not-so-obvious body parts that can spice up your foreplay? Here are six pleasure-sensitive body parts you never knew existed, according to Veronica Monet, ACS, couples consultant, certified sexologist with the American College of Sexologists, and certified sex educator of TAP Communications.



Remember when you felt sexually advanced if you'd reached second base? Well, it's time to bring your hands back into the bedroom—and not just as a tool for getting your girlfriend off. "Hands can add so much creativity to sensuality," says Marianne Brandon, Ph.D., author of Reclaiming Desire: 4 Keys to Finding Your Lost Libido. "Women really like to be teased, and hands are an important part of that intensity building." In other words, your digits are capable of sexual stimulation that your penis isn't—you just have to know how to turn them into your own personal sex toys. Ready to bring all hands on deck? Try these seven moves to stoke her desire, stat. 

 2.Trace her body
Pretend you're an artist, drawing every edge and crease of her body with your finger. "This gets her focusing on sensation," says Brandon. Trace the border of her lips, her soft inner thighs, the roundness of her breast—hit every inch of her, with a soft, barely-there touch. "It's not tickling," says Brandon. "Your fingers maintain contact with her skin, but very lightly." (Hint: Imagine you're only touching the almost-invisible hairs on her body.) Save her nipples and clitoris for last, and even then, approach her hot spots slowly. "Outline her clitoris—don't touch it directly for a while," Brandon says. "That will really intensify the experience." Adds Monica Lieser, a licensed marital therapist and author of 14 Days of Foreplay: "When you touch those body parts right out of the gate, it's actually uncomfortable. There's no anticipation. And anticipation is where desire is." 

3. Spread her lips
During oral, your tongue plays a starring role, but your hands deserve a little stage time, too. "Spreading her lips with your fingers makes her feel more exposed," says Brandon. "For most women, that level of vulnerability heightens the excitement." Plus, by using all of your sexual tools, you show your enthusiasm for going down on her, which helps her relax and makes climaxing easier. "The more ways you're interacting with her, the more it appears that you're enjoying yourself," Brandon says. Another way to occupy your hands during oral: grab her hand and give it a quick squeeze. "That's a lovely way to stay romantically connected," says Brandon.

4. Let her guide your hand

News flash: Your go-to strokes and preferred intensity probably won't work when pleasuring her. "When men masturbate, their touch is fairly rough," says Lisa Thomas, a certified sex therapist and founder of OnlineCouch.com. "If they use that much pressure on us, it hurts." That means watching her solo sessions can be key to learning the types of touch that turn her on. One problem: Women are often too shy to let their partners observe. The solution? Ask for a hands-on education. "I train my couples to use the 'handwriting technique,' where she takes your hand and shows you how to touch her in the way that feels best," Thomas says. Adds Brandon: "It's a very intimate act to touch yourself in front of another person. Holding her hand essentially gives her permission to go there."

5. Hold her face while kissing her

Kissing isn't all about tongue—it's also about touch. Holding her face while you lock lips shows that you're fully engaged: "You're pulling her in and helping her feel safe," says Thomas. "Using your hands can make the experience more memorable." This is especially true if you haven't slept together yet, since women readway more into a kiss than you do. If you expertly touch her during a make-out session, she'll likely infer that you're skilled in the sack, says Thomas.

6. Write her a sexy note

Sure, picking up a pen isn't as erotic as other forms of foreplay, but the effort will pay off in dividends. "When we feel valued and known, we feel connected," says Lieser. "That's where intimacy comes from." So leave her a note on her nightstand or bathroom mirror; it can be as simple as "I love you" or as sexy as "Thanks for last night. That was amazing." As cliché as it sounds, those few words will leave her thinking about you all day long—and ready for a repeat performance.

7. Stimulate her during sex

We've all heard this depressing stat: Only about a quarter of women consistently climax from intercourse alone. So why not get your hands in on the action? In a recent Australian study, 71 percent of women who had an orgasm during their last encounter said they combined manual stimulation and intercourse. Your natural sex position for getting her off: spooning. "You have easy access to her genitals from the front," says Thomas. Plus, in this position, you're less focused on thrusting—your bodies are super close, so the amount of work is minimal—making it easier to establish a rhythm when stimulating her

5 Tips to Get Pregnant

Posted by: Hemant Verma Posted date: 10:41 PM / comment : 0 , , , ,

For some women, conceiving can be as easy as tossing out their contraception, whether they're working on their first baby or their fourth. For others, reaching the goal of fertilization becomes a nightly chore, a mad mating dance that revolves around ovulation kits, specific sexual positions, and, more and more commonly, a succession of fertility tests to help pinpoint possible problems.
Whether you've just started trying to become pregnant or have been at it for a while, heeding some common sense advice that's based on good science can help boost your odds of conceiving. Here, noted fertility experts from around the country have outlined the do's, don'ts, and don't-bother-withs of getting pregnant.





1. Have sex frequently. It may seem like a no-brainer, but given many couples' hectic schedules, it's easy to overlook this one. If you're not timing your cycles or you have irregular periods, you can cover your bases by having sex every other day, say fertility specialists.


2. Figure out when you ovulate. Women with very regular 28-day cycles can just count 14 days from the first day of their period to determine their ovulation date. If your cycles aren't regular (or even if they are), an ovulation kit can help you pinpoint your most fertile time.

Most ovulation kits measure the level of luteinizing hormone (LH), one of the hormones that signals the ovaries to release an egg, present in your urine. LH begins to surge around 36 hours before you ovulate, but most kits don't detect it until 24 hours prior. A woman with a 28-day cycle should start testing her urine on day nine or ten after the start of her period so she doesn't miss her surge.
A new palm-size, electronic device called ClearPlan Easy measures LH and estrogen levels, and can signal ovulation up to five days in advance.

Monitoring cervical mucus is another way to track ovulation. "It's not as reliable as a kit," says Sandra Carson, M.D., professor of ob-gyn at Baylor College of Medicine, in Houston, "but it doesn't cost anything." This method involves checking your secretions for a few months until you notice a pattern. Estrogen causes mucus to thin after your period, while rising levels of progesterone right after ovulation make it thicken. Once you pinpoint when you ovulate, you can plan to have sex several times leading up to that day.

The drawbacks: Many women find this method inconvenient or inaccurate since such factors as nursing and antihistamines, even fertility drugs, can dry up mucus.

Charting your basal body temperature is useful for figuring out when you ovulate. "Your temperature usually dips by half a degree 24 hours before you ovulate; then it goes up as you ovulate," says Pette Zarmakoupis, M.D., an ob-gyn and director of the Kentucky Center for Reproductive Medicine, in Lexington. But since basal body temperature can be thrown off by a number of things, such as illness, don't rely on it alone.


3. Step up sex before ovulation. As soon as you pick up a hormonal surge, have sex that day, plus the next two days. Pregnancy rates peak two days before ovulation, says Clarice Weinberg, Ph.D., chief of biostatistics at the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences. Some experts speculate that's when cervical mucus is at its optimum for helping sperm travel to the egg and break down its shell-like coating.
Sperm can live inside the uterus for 24 to 48 hours, which means there will be plenty on hand to greet the egg once ovulation starts.
Another reason to have sex before you ovulate, as opposed to the day it happens: An egg survives for only 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, so if you begin to ovulate in the morning and wait until nighttime to have sex, the egg may lose its viability by the time the sperm gets to it. In addition, says Dr. Zarmakoupis, cervical mucus starts to become thick and impenetrable right after ovulation, rendering it "hostile" to the passage of sperm.


4. Enjoy yourself. "The most important thing to remember is to keep sex fun," says Felicia Stewart, M.D., coauthor of Understanding Your Body: Every Woman's Guide to Gynecology and Health. When it becomes a chore, it's easy to view sex as just one more item on your to-do list.


5. Give it time. Barring fertility problems and other conditions or habits that can interfere with conception, half of all couples get pregnant within six months, says Dr. Stewart, and 85 percent do so within a year.

Top 11 Myths about First Night Sex

Posted by: Hemant Verma Posted date: 1:03 AM / comment : 0 , , , ,

Sex is a topic that probably has more myths associated with it than facts. Practically every body part that plays a part in the sexual act has been analysed, scrutinized, facts and myths derived upon. 




 Myth 1: Size matters
It’s not so much the size; it is what you can do with it. A bigger penis doesn’t guarantee great sex. And after all, most women’s vaginas are just three to five inches deep. Better moves and different positions make the size debate immaterial.


Myth 2: Orgasm every time
A lot of women don’t hit the big O every time they have sex. This is where faking or coital stimulation comes into play. For some women, only particular positions work while others might need more intangible help – romantic setting, longer foreplay etc.


Myth 3: Masturbation is unhealthy
Masturbation is just simulated sex. Sex isn’t unhealthy, so isn’t masturbation. There are no limits on the number of times one can do it either. Just ensure it doesn’t become an obsession that eats in to your work or study time.


Myth 4: Good sex should be spontaneous
Chances of spontaneous good sex are few and far between. Sometimes you need to work towards making sex good. Either planning something special or getting innovative would help.


Myth 5: Men want sex more
That’s what men would love to believe. It’s similar to the size myth. Fact is, though, that sex drive isn’t dependent on the gender. Sex drive in both men and women vary with age, stress levels, health and mental state.


Myth 6: Compatibility is equal to good sex
Getting along well off the bed isn’t the same as great chemistry in bed. What works for one person might not work for the other. But keep experimenting and you might arrive at techniques and positions that work for both.


 Myth 7: Must reach orgasm at the same time
That is like saying two people must get the same marks in every test they ever take. It’s great when two people orgasm at the same time. But it can be good otherwise too. Think of it this way, sex lasts longer when you take turns.


 Myth 8: Virginity is easily detectable during sex
The hymen in girls is a very thin layer of skin that breaks with a very little pressure. It can break during some heavy exercises like riding or swimming much before the girl has sex for the first time. You cannot really know when the hymen breaks because the other myth that most girls bleed a little when it breaks is equally faulty.


 Myth 9: Men can’t have multiple orgasms
Orgasm and ejaculation are often mistaken for the same thing in men. They often happen either together or ejaculation occurs soon after orgasm. But with a little practice, multiple orgasms are possible for men.


 Myth 10: The safe cycle is really safe
Each woman’s menstrual cycle varies. It even varies in the same woman over time, depending on physical health, stress levels, hormonal health etc. The safe cycle is a good method only when you have a regular 28-day cycle but it isn’t fool proof.


 Myth 11: Intercourse should last a long time
There are quickies and all-night romps. Sex should last as long as the two partners make it last. Best though is to vary the duration and intensity to keep sexual lives healthy longer.

Tips to Make Your First Wedding Night with Awesomness

Posted by: Hemant Verma Posted date: 5:49 AM / comment : 0 , , , , ,

Having first-time sex on your wedding night or any other night can bring on some anxiety, even if it is mixed with excitement. You might fear that sex will be painful or boring. You wonder if you'll know what to do. And you want information on how to make the experience as pleasurable and memorable (in a good way) as possible. Here is a guide to making your first time the best it can be:

Create the right kind of ambiance.

You want the room to be romantic. Use the best bedding that you have – from soft pillowcases to a luxurious comforter. Have flowers on hand – either a beautiful bouquet or rose petals on the bed. Dim the lights (although some people like to have the lights on – it’s a personal choice). It should be a clean and safe haven for you and your husband or wife to experience your first time together. Besides putting you in the mood, it will also relax you. Of course, if you're in a hotel room, choose one that is up to your standards and sets the mood that will work best for you.

Wear something sexy.

Grannie panties could kill the vibe. Worst of all, you might not feel confident, which will make your first time far less satisfying. You should feel your personal best to enhance your pleasure and make the experience less stressful. Put on your sexiest underwear and whatever else it takes for you to feel really great about yourself.

Use lubricant.

Stress, which is natural at a time like this, might cause vaginal dryness, which can make sex more uncomfortable or painful. Menopause and hormonal changes in your menstrual cycle are also causes for vaginal dryness. The solution? Use some sort of lubrication, such as Astroglide or KY, to create more moisture for friction. Open the tube of lube before you get started and keep it on the bed near you. You will probably have to experiment with the amount needed. Get information on personal lubrication to make sure you purchase the right product for you.

Enjoy foreplay.

Another way to create more moisture is to spend a lot of time on foreplay. Women need to get worked up to become naturally wet. Kissing, hugging, touching, and oral sex will help increase the moisture – and the pleasure. This also helps some people feel closer and more intimate during sex.

Pick the right sexual position to start.

Choosing the right position, at first, might make a difference in how much pain the woman feels during vaginal intercourse. When a woman is on top, she can control the level of penetration. This can cut down on the discomfort she is experiencing and has her controlling and managing her pleasure and pain. Breathing in and out can also help a woman who is experiencing pain, especially at the moment of initial penetration, to relax and feel better.

Be prepared for a mess.

If you tend to worry about keeping things neat and organized, you might want to put a towel underneath you. Some women bleed, from their hymen breaking, and things can get messy. In fact, you might bleed for a few days or even the second or third time you have sex. It’s perfectly normal. To keep yourself clean, you might want to wear a pad or panty liner until the bleeding stops.

People Thinks Lesbian Porn is Bad but Lesbian Sex Is Great

Posted by: Hemant Verma Posted date: 7:35 AM / comment : 0 , ,


Slate writer Vanessa Vitiello is concerned about the dire state of lesbian pornography. Why isn't there more of it? she wants to know. And why don't more of us watch it? Vitiello was unable to find any research into the porn-viewing habits of queer ladies, and I haven't had any more success — science, we're gonna need you to step it up — but in the meantime, as a non-porn-watching lesbian, I have some thoughts on why this might be.
First of all, as Vitiello points out, most of what's described as “lesbian” porn is made to be consumed by straight men, and it is... awful. The inch-long fingernails? The insanely awkward cunnilingus, which primarily demonstrates how far porn stars can stick out their tongues? The lack of diverse body types and gender presentations? Nope, nope, no thank you. If this substandard product is your first exposure to on-camera girl-on-girl action — as it is for nearly everyone, since you can hardly turn on your computer without seeing the stuff — no one could fault you for swearing off porn forever and only masturbating to Buffy reruns or white-noise machines.
More important, though, is a factor Vitiello hits on but doesn't explore in depth: Ask five lesbians what sex is — the specific physical acts that constitute a really good lay — and chances are, you'll get five different answers. Some queer girls find strap-ons indispensable; others consider them wholly unnecessary tools of the patriarchy. Some are enthusiastic, practically evangelical proponents of fisting, while others would rather not even think about it. Some of us just aren't that into oral. And of course, nothing will start a brawl in a lesbian bar quicker than asking, “So what does everyone think about scissoring?”
While straight people can and do have interesting, varied sex lives, ask five straight people what sex is and at least four of them are going to say P-in-V. Making porn that appeals to straight people, therefore, is not much of a guessing game. Besides, since the market is so enormous, there are thriving niches for people who don't want to see P-in-V, or who want to see it in specific ways or performed by specific types of people. Since 93 percent of respondents were heterosexual, that's a lot of straight women getting off to girl-on-girl action — very possibly more than the number of lesbians who watch it. I wonder if that's because it tends to depict more cunnilingus and other clit-centric activities that, in straight porn, might be relegated to foreplay.
Porn for queer women, on the other hand, doesn't have the same kind of common ground to start from. Of course, there are great production companies making porn by and for queers, and theirs is a high and noble calling, but it's got to be difficult to create a popular product when your target audience is so small to begin with and can't reach any kind of consensus regarding what — or who — is sexy.
While Vitiello bemoans the lack of compelling Sapphic erotica, I suspect that its absence actually points to something positive. My tenuous understanding of supply and demand suggests that there's not much good lesbian porn because we don't really want it. When there are so many more options in real life than could possibly be portrayed in one video, what's the use? Porn is, of course, always a pale imitation of the real thing, but for lesbians the gap between representation and reality is especially broad. And if porn can't keep up with the variance and complexity of our actual sex lives and fantasy lives, I have no problem leaving it in the dust.

How to Give a Perfect Blow Job to Your Men?

Posted by: Hemant Verma Posted date: 1:35 AM / comment : 0 , , ,

early morning men blow job

 Pleasuring your man manually — whether it's a prelude to penetration or an erotic act in itself — is an incredibly sexy sack skill that's often overlooked. When you and your man are fooling around, have him lie on his back and straddle his thighs. Then, gently rub some water-based lube on his penis. To perform the basic hand job, firmly, but gently, wrap your fingers around his member and move your fist up and down his shaft in a slow,steady motion.
Variety is one of the key ingredients to a moan-worthy hand job, so mix up your speed and pressure as his arousal grows. Don't forget to pay special attention to the super-sensitive corona (the ridge where the head meets the shaft) and frenulum (the thin ridge that runs the length of the underside of his penis). Periodically massaging them with one or two fingers will make him swoon.
You'll also want to try using both hands in tandem -- think of it as doubling his pleasure. To give him an incredibly erotic two-hander, form a ring with your thumb and forefinger at the base of his shaft and gently tug downward, while simultaneously fondling his TLC-craving testicles with your other hand. Another make-his-toes-curl strategy: Handle his member with both hands working in precision, first one hand scaling down his shaft followed directly by the other. Make a gentle twisting motion on the way down, and his head'll spin. Or, wrap both hands around his member and move them in opposite directions as you work your way up and down his shaft. As he nears orgasm, continue stroking his shaft with one hand, while you gently massage his perineum (the nerve-packed stretch of skin between his anus and testicles) with the pointer and middle fingers of your other hand. You'll set him on fire.
Since no two guys are alike, you'll have to experiment with different moves to discover exactly what sends your man over the edge. Just ask him what feels good. Or, have him give you a hands-on demo of how he likes to stimulate himself, then follow his lead. Remember, just as important as technique is attitude, so try not to get hung up on "performance anxiety" and have fun. The fact that you're so willing to please your man is as big a turn-on as any hand job.

Foreplay Tips - What Should a Man do Before Sex

Posted by: Hemant Verma Posted date: 1:23 AM / comment : 0 , , ,






It may take little more than a grope to prep your man for nooky, but get this: If you spend time engaging in preplay, you’ll pave the way for more pleasure than ever. “When a man is turned on before sex in the right way, it not only feels good, but his body is also more receptive and his orgasm more intense,” says sex expert Gloria Brame, PhD. Here, five foreplay-for-him maneuvers that’ll tantalize your guy.

PRE-SEX MOVE 1: Let Him View Your Bod
You...naked. It’s already the hottest gift for your guy. Let him really soak up the sight and he’ll sizzle to an even higher temperature. “Men’s brain chemistry changes when they’re presented with a sexy image,” says Brame, “so flaunting your body will make his desire climb.”

To give him a view to a thrill, crib these peep-show pointers. Push him down on the bed and straddle him. Then, while he’s defenseless, very leisurely peel off one piece of your clothing at a time. To really titillate him, let him sneak a peek at the good stuff — your breasts, butt, inner thighs — but then cover up again. When you finally get down to removing your panties, do it painfully slow so he feels the burn. “Once you’re naked, tease him by twisting your body over him in different directions, arching your back, and letting your breasts graze his face and chest,” says sex expert Ava Cadell, PhD. He’ll be absolutely aching for your touch by the time you finally press your body against his.

Take it from Kyle,* 22. “My girlfriend stripped and sat me down in front of a big mirror. Then she said ‘Hands off’ and began to undress me,” he recalls. “Watching her — but not being able to have her—was torture... in a good way.” Let him look, but don’t let him touch. That anticipation is a powerful tool.


PRE-SEX MOVE 2: Use Your Breath
Relax, you can leave the tantric breathing to Sting. But there’s something to be said for using your mouth to work up your man. Start by letting your parted lips linger somewhere on his body, like his stomach or chest, then slowly exhale. “The rush of hot air will create a temperature change in his skin and heighten arousal,” says Cadell.

“My girlfriend does this thing where she takes a long, wet lick up my neck, followed by a warm breath,” says Christopher, 29. “Or sometimes she’ll go really fast, alternating between licking and cool blowing on my nipples. It’s like a stimulation bonanza.”

Now, a couple of heated rounds like this and your guy’s gonna want to go for the gusto. So to reel him back: Work your way south to his package, pucker up, and blast a circle of cool air around his penis, as if you were putting out the candles on a cake. “Breathing cool air on a hot region will actually make his arousal last longer,” says Cadell.

PRE-SEX MOVE 3: Play a Little Rough
When it comes to foreplay, most women crave a slow seduction. But guys often like the more forceful approach. “Men get turned on when women get a little animalistic and make maximum pleasure the goal. They take it as a sign of lust and an indication that she’s as into it as he is,” says Brame. To him, playing rough isn’t about bondage necessarily. “Guys just want a woman who can take the reins,” says Brame.

So seize carnal control with a gotta-have- him-now lip-lock. Nathan, 31, says his fiancée, Sally, has that smooch nailed. “She’ll take my tongue in her mouth and really suck on it,” he says. “I swear a rush shoots right to my groin.” Next, make him putty in your hands by physically moving him into different positions, scratching your nails down his back, and being ballsy when he tries to take over. For instance, if he makes a move to give you some down-there pleasure, pull him up, flip him over on his back, and let him be on the receiving end. Trust us, he won’t have a problem with this kind of authority.


PRE-SEX MOVE 4: Tantalize with Touch
Guys are surprisingly touchy between the sheets, and we’re not just talking about how he measures up to your ex. “Men desire a variety of hands-on stimulation techniques,” says Brame. And guess what, it’s not where you think. Instead of heading straight for his package, mix up your sexual touches — think: hard massage, long nail strokes, surprise pinches — all over his body to pique his pleasure.

That’s what Jess, 29, found out. “I thought the only place Jason was interested in being touched was between his legs, but when I pinned him down and started kneading his butt checks and sucking on his earlobes, he went wild,” she says. Jess has the right idea, according to Cadell. “These contrasting caresses electrify the nerve endings in his skin, and the surprise factor helps rev him up even more,” she says.


PRE-SEX MOVE 5: Bring Him to the Brink
And now for the frisky finale: Pull out the start–stop trick. “By teasing your guy mercilessly and bringing him dangerously close to climax repeatedly, you will ultimately intensify his orgasm,” says Brame.

To kick off his preorgasmic frenzy: “Draw a circle around his genital region with your lips,” says Brame. “The whole area from his upper thigh to lower belly is sensitive, and the teasing proximity of your mouth will excite him but still allow him to hold back his climax.”

Then read his body language to determine when he’s close to combusting and ease off. “When his body tenses up, you know he’s right there,” says Brame. If you don’t want him to climax yet, move your focus to another lusty location. And when you’re ready to finish him off... well, you’ve got it from here, right?

Pre-Play Props He Loves(and Hates)
Guys list the toys that turn them on and those they think are so tired.

MORE PLEASE...
Polaroids. “A girl I dated let me snap her while she was on top. That gift just kept on giving.” —Marcus, 26

Wigs. “My girlfriend put on a wig and took on a whole new sexual personality. It was so hot.” —J.T., 22

Fishnet stockings. “When my fiancée demanded I tie her hands with the stockings and then pleasure her, it was a chore I did without complaint.” —Hamish, 27

Lipstick. “My girl writes dirty messages all over my body, then we smudge them up.” —Doug, 20

ENOUGH ALREADY...
Chocolate syrup. “It sounds good in theory, but I hate turning up at my Laundromat with suspicious brown stains all over my sheets.” —Jeff, 21

Scented candles. “That vanilla crap always reminds me of my grandma’s house!” —Casey, 19

High heels. “Those darn things hurt when you cop one in the quad or butt cheek.” —Wes, 30

Sex lotion. “It may smell okay, but that flavored goop tastes like poison when you lick her body and get it in your mouth.” 
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