We all know the basic requirements for intercourse, but what about those not-so-obvious body parts that can spice up your foreplay? Here are six pleasure-sensitive body parts you never knew existed, according to Veronica Monet, ACS, couples consultant, certified sexologist with the American College of Sexologists, and certified sex educator of TAP Communications.

Contrary to popular belief, tantric sex is not kinky business. The basic goal of tantric sex is that there is none, and the only point is to connect deeply and spiritually with your partner. The climax or orgasm itself is not the priority; instead, the journey of exploration, learning about each other and building a stronger, more intimate relationship is paramount. 



You need lots of time: 
Tantric sex does not mean that you have to make love for hours. “Instead, enlightenment and having 
a reverence for your partner that lasts beyond the length of any orgasm is at the core of the teachings,” say Mark A Michaels and Patricia Johnson in their book Tantric Sex Made Simple. “It’s funny that a comment Sting made over 20 years ago still has an enduring hold on the public’s imagination. He’s tried to explain it away in various ways. At one point, he said that he regretted making the statement and didn’t really feel he could talk about the subject beyond saying that his wife, Trudy, is his church. That’s much closer to what the spirit of tantric sex is all about. It’s certainly got nothing 
to do with bragging about staying power.” 

You need to be flexible: 
The idea behind tantric sex is to fuse the male body, mind and soul. This can be achieved  by controlling your breathing, while your partner controls his, making love in certain positions so that you are face to face and looking at each other, and stimulating one another to prolong the whole sexual process. 

It seeks to not only reach the ultimate level of pleasure by deferring both his and your orgasms, but also to become closer with your partner and understanding each others’ bodies better. The tantric approach has far more to do with your mental approach than with technique. Difficult positions are not 
necessarily the key to tantric sex. “Concentrating on simple positions, which are enjoyable to both of 
you, will help prolong the erection and contribute to escalate the pleasure further,” says Delhi-based 
sexologist Dr Vinod Raina. 

It’s for weirdos: 
In their book, Mark and Patricia say, “Tantric sex has more to do with your attitude than anything else, so a simple shift in thinking is all it takes.” In India, not only are most women completely unaware of the concept of tantric sex, but are also worried there are stigmas attached to it. “Tantric sex seems like 
an intriguing, if pretty out-there, concept to me,” says architect Hetal Punari. “I haven’t tried it only because I’m not entirely sure of what it is. Once I know all about it, I might be game.”

TRY THIS AT HOME 
Mumbai-based sex counsellor Dr Uttam Dave shares some steps to get you started. 

- Sit naked with your partner, cross-legged, surrounded by pillows. The room should be dark or dimly lit with candles. Play some soft music
- Look deep into each other’s eyes. Don’t stare, but look at him in a way to tell him that he’s wonderful.
- Breathe in sync.
- Keep your hands two inches from his body initially and receive the energy he is exuding. Then slowly exchange this energy and start touching and stimulating each other.

It's to be a long time that you didn't read new article based on the relationships and love, actually we were busy in reading some new research based on personality, love, relationships etc.

If the girl gets too wet during sex it can reduce the friction to the point where you don't really feel anything." I had no idea!) Anyway, inspired by his work, I decided to write a primer for female virgins. Because although women usually learn the basics through friends (or magazines like Cosmo), there are still aspects of sex that we're forced to learn the hard way. After the jump, the five things about sex most other women are too prudish or ashamed to share.

1.) It Feels Better Without a Condom

You know, people really get on their high horse when it comes to using condoms. Here's the thing: You know those PSAs or HBO Families in Crisis movies about the importance of safe sex? And there's always a guy who's like slimy and tries to sweet-talk his girlfriend into having sex without a condom because "it feels better." Well, he's right. It totally does feel better. I know, know! Condoms are important for many reasons and you should wear them. But for me, it feels way more natural without one and I'm much less likely to get a UTI. And if he re-ups and is able to fuck you again, and you guys go through with foreplay again, it doesn't taste as gross when you go down on him.

2.) Queefing

We've been over this. But in addition to what was already discussed, I'd like to add that you probably won't need to worry about queefing the first time, because most likely, you're so new down there that you're pretty much airtight.

3.) Location, Location, Location

Your pussy is prime real estate. If your body were a Monopoly board, your clit and vadge would be Boardwalk. A lot of guys don't know what the hell they're doing, and sometimes they just poke their dick around blindly. Make sure you guide them to the front hole, 'cause If he accidentally jams it in your butt or your taint, and you're not ready for it, you're not gonna like the way it feels. Trust! Which brings me to number four...

4.) Lube, Lube, Lube

This is seriously the most important thing for D in the V. (Or B...but no butts yet, I said!) Ideally, you want to be so turned on that your vadge is naturally wet, but that might not happen the first few times, for whatever reason (nervousness, fear, etc.) So just make sure you have a bunch of lube on hand. However, if you got a lot of bottled lube down there, you shouldn't attempt doggy style, because all that stuff will get in your pee hole and it will give you the mother of all UTIs.

5.) Tampons Will Fit Better After

No joke. They really will. I was never able to get tampons up there before I lost my virginity, probably because I was too tense whenever I tried. But the weekend after I did it for the first time (and the second, and third, and fourth, and so on), I decided to try to insert a slender/regular, even though I didn't have my period. Not nearly as much resistance and I was able to get the entire thing up there.

So there you go! Now, if you ever get around to it, you won't be so lost when you actually try to fuck. Just remember to be safe and wear a condom. (Even though, yeah, it feels better without it.)

The nation now knows the precise size of publicist Max Clifford’s penis, after it was read it out in court. But does size matter to most women? Claire Cohen reports.

Pencil penis. Lovemuscle. Trouser snake. Third leg. Stubby.
Remember all those playground names for the male appendage, big and small?
Max Clifford probably does.



This week, the celebrity agent had the size of his manhood dissected by four women in court, during his trial for indecent assault. Each gave a conflicting report, ranging from 'enormous' to the less flattering 'micropenis'.
Clifford's counsel hit back.


A doctor had measured his penis, explained barrister Richard Horwell QC, at five and a quarter inches when soft. "Not freakishly small and certainly not enormous."
So far, so flaccid.
But it is food for thought. I mean, when was the last time you actually thought properly - in metric terms - about penis size? Probably not since you had a ruler in your pencil case and giggled with friends over the 'average' dimensions described in the pages of Just 17. Right?
While the Sex and the City girls might have kiss and told over brunch (I distinctly remember Samantha describing one penis as like "a wall of flesh coming towards me" - terrifying for a virgin), should the rest of us even care?

Those who subscribe to a romantic view, don't. If you love someone then it's what they do with it that counts. After all, historically we wouldn't have got a glimpse at the goods before our wedding night. You just had to stick with what you got.

A quick survey of friends shows what I fully expected: we're all different. Some favour length, others girth. One just wants something inoffensive that won't "catch my eye when he's getting out of the shower". Who knows? Maybe we all have different parameters too, hence the wildly varying descriptions at Clifford's trial.
What I do know, is that few women want to unzip something porn-star sized. One friend described her alarm when confronted with a penis "like a can of Diet Coke, or the girth of a fist."
Which makes it all the more strange when I hear men talk about trimming their pubic hair in order to appear larger. All this says to me is that penis size is a peculiarly male obsession.
Think about it - all those jokes about showboating in locker rooms, or size comparison at the urinals continue long into adulthood, while women have long since shelved the rulers.
My straight female friends have no idea what the exact size of their other halves' bits are.
So, chaps, a piece of advice: it's just a penis. Use what you have; or use something else.

Women prefer chocolate over sex, a survey suggests. We go through the holiday season so snack-addled and secretly guilty it's a wonder anyone manages to mate at all, writes Dr Brooke Magnanti.