Whereas it wouldn't take a rocket scientist to discover men's erogenous zones (the penis, the testicles and the anus), women get aroused through very diverse body parts. Ah women, what an exquisite species!

The inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking and licking. Just like the back of the knees, inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle them, you will turn her on like crazy.

Remember not to bite because the area is very sensitive and doing so would only cause her mild pain, which will, in turn, cause you plenty of pain.

9. Behind the Knees
Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, you'd be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees.

Be careful not to overdo it — the area, after all, is very sensitive and you must be careful not to make the sensation annoying by getting too rough or tickling her too much.

8. Buttocks
Yes, it's true. Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of the buttocks. But there's more...

Some women like having their butts licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). For those who shudder at the thought of sticking their tongues out at Uranus , I'm sure that anal penetration, on the other hand, sounds quite inviting, huh?

7. Nape of the Neck
Just breathing on this part of her body will give her goose bumps all over. So just imagine her reaction when you use your tongue or teeth to get her aroused.

Use your hands too; lift her hair up gently as you bring your mouth closer to her neck. Then, as you sink your teeth into it, pull on her hair slightly so as to give that "I want you sooo bad" impression.

This part of a woman's body is also a good place to start giving her that sensual massage you are famous for and no woman can resist.

6. Ears
Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing in her ear is acceptable, it's not what women enjoy most. Besides the aforementioned things that they like having done to their ears, women like it when you whisper in their ears.

Don't whisper things like, "Can you wash my gym shorts tonight?" Try to be somewhat erotic and give her the shivers up and down her spine instead.

5. Feet
Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Assuming that their feet have been properly cleansed, women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be pleasant for the recipient.

While some men cringe at the thought of wrapping their mouths around a body part that spends most of its day sweating in leather, many guys are actually pretty keen on the idea of giving their women a good toe lashing every now and then.

4. Wrists
This may come as a shock to most guys (women have wrists??!?), but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers. The next time you're getting into the foreplay of things with your woman,begin kissing and caressing her wrists and just check out how impressed and turned on she'll become!

3. Breasts (Nipples)
As I'm sure is no surprise to anyone, the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing.

Just as well, many women like it when their guys get a little rough with their little mountains , so find out how she likes it and give it to her the way she wants!

2. Vagina/Clitoris
The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the finger or, for the multi-talented Joe, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy.

For those who don't get that luxury, it's usually quite evident whether or not she's pleased with your performance. If she begins getting squirmy, make sure that it's because she's enjoying it and not because you're giving her that "annoying" feeling.

In the vagina, the G-spot may be a little difficult to locate, but some women find the search quite worthwhile. There is an area inside some women's vaginas that produces intense sexual feelings when stimulated. Once located, very gentle stimulation gives an incredibly pleasant and unusual sensation.

And the number one female erogenous zone...

1. Lips
Yes, it's true. If you know how to manipulate her lips just right through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.

And there it is, the top 10 spots that will drive her crazy. Remember that all women are different and have their own likes and dislikes. Get to know her body and experiment. There's so much more to women than just their sexual organs.

Remember when you felt sexually advanced if you'd reached second base? Well, it's time to bring your hands back into the bedroom—and not just as a tool for getting your girlfriend off. "Hands can add so much creativity to sensuality," says Marianne Brandon, Ph.D., author of Reclaiming Desire: 4 Keys to Finding Your Lost Libido. "Women really like to be teased, and hands are an important part of that intensity building." In other words, your digits are capable of sexual stimulation that your penis isn't—you just have to know how to turn them into your own personal sex toys. Ready to bring all hands on deck? Try these seven moves to stoke her desire, stat. 

2.Trace her body

3. Spread her lips

Everyone knows that sex is good exercise, but this sex position takes it to a new level. It requires you to have the strength to do a plank over her, and the strength for her to support you, but the deep penetration this position achieves is worth it.

Best for: Giving you both a core workout.

Level: Difficult - requires strength from both of you.

The missionary position is a classic in the act of love and is the most common position in Western sexuality.

A little historyThe missionary position is the most natural sexual position. It gets its name from the time when the Evangelical church sent its priests to faraway lands where they advised indigenous communities to use the position because it was the best for procreation! However, this is not scientifically proven. Only humans have sex in the missionary position.

The techniqueFace-to-face, you lie on your back with your legs apart while he lies on top of you, using his elbows and knees to support his weight so that he doesn’t squash you.

Sensations The missionary is not the most ‘efficient’ position for a woman in terms of pleasure, if we consider only physical sensation. However, if your partner adopts a good angle, the side of the vagina and the G spot can be stimulated very well. It’s up to you to position your legs and body to get the best contact possible between his pubis and your clitoris. Some women place a cushion under their buttocks for extra pleasure. If the clitoris is not stimulated enough, try sliding your hand between your bodies to caress yourself during penetration.

DisadvantagesThis position restricts movement for women, and can sometimes feel as if you're being pinned down. Avoid this position if he is a little on the large side! Also, he controls everything: the rhythm, intensity and depth of penetration and angle of the penis, so it could be said he gets more out of it than you! And some people complain that this position lacks 'fantasy' because the movements are quite monotonous.

The best time to do itAlthough the missionary has a reputation for being banal and routine, it's still best position for first-time sex because it’s easy and natural. It’s also particularly suitable for romantic love-making as the bodies are in contact all along the body, the lovers are face to face and can look into each others eyes and kiss passionately. It's also good if you want sex but you're tired, as it's quite relaxing. The missionary can be unpleasant during pregnancy, so expectant mothers should use their imagination to find the best position for their bump.

Timing is everything. Sperm can live for two to three days, but the egg is around for only 12 to 24 hours. To increase the likelihood of conception, it's important to have intercourse more than once around the time of ovulation. A good approach is to have sex one to two days before ovulation and again on the day you ovulate. That way, there's more likely to be a healthy supply of sperm waiting in the fallopian tube when an egg is released.

Of course, exactly when a woman ovulates isn't altogether clear. It all depends on the length of your menstrual cycle. A woman typically ovulates about 14 days before her next period — not mid-cycle, as is commonly held. If you have a 28-day cycle, which is the average, then you would ovulate halfway through your cycle. But if you have a 35-day cycle, you would ovulate around day 21, not day 17.

Some women are very aware of when they ovulate. Other women don't notice any changes at all. If you're thinking about getting pregnant, try to track your cycle for a couple of months. Some subtle signs of ovulation include:

If my periods are irregular, will it be harder for me to get pregnant?

Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant fast. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help a woman to cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.

Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Don’t wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partner’s sperm will last longer than your egg and you don’t want to miss an opportunity by waiting.

A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for signs of ovulation will help you to determine when you ovulate.

Fertility Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.

Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive. 

For some women, conceiving can be as easy as tossing out their contraception, whether they're working on their first baby or their fourth. For others, reaching the goal of fertilization becomes a nightly chore, a mad mating dance that revolves around ovulation kits, specific sexual positions, and, more and more commonly, a succession of fertility tests to help pinpoint possible problems.

Whether you've just started trying to become pregnant or have been at it for a while, heeding some common sense advice that's based on good science can help boost your odds of conceiving. Here, noted fertility experts from around the country have outlined the do's, don'ts, and don't-bother-withs of getting pregnant.

1. Have sex frequently. It may seem like a no-brainer, but given many couples' hectic schedules, it's easy to overlook this one. If you're not timing your cycles or you have irregular periods, you can cover your bases by having sex every other day, say fertility specialists.

2. Figure out when you ovulate. Women with very regular 28-day cycles can just count 14 days from the first day of their period to determine their ovulation date. If your cycles aren't regular (or even if they are), an ovulation kit can help you pinpoint your most fertile time.

Most ovulation kits measure the level of luteinizing hormone (LH), one of the hormones that signals the ovaries to release an egg, present in your urine. LH begins to surge around 36 hours before you ovulate, but most kits don't detect it until 24 hours prior. A woman with a 28-day cycle should start testing her urine on day nine or ten after the start of her period so she doesn't miss her surge.

A new palm-size, electronic device called ClearPlan Easy measures LH and estrogen levels, and can signal ovulation up to five days in advance.

Monitoring cervical mucus is another way to track ovulation. "It's not as reliable as a kit," says Sandra Carson, M.D., professor of ob-gyn at Baylor College of Medicine, in Houston, "but it doesn't cost anything." This method involves checking your secretions for a few months until you notice a pattern. Estrogen causes mucus to thin after your period, while rising levels of progesterone right after ovulation make it thicken. Once you pinpoint when you ovulate, you can plan to have sex several times leading up to that day.

The drawbacks: Many women find this method inconvenient or inaccurate since such factors as nursing and antihistamines, even fertility drugs, can dry up mucus.

Charting your basal body temperature is useful for figuring out when you ovulate. "Your temperature usually dips by half a degree 24 hours before you ovulate; then it goes up as you ovulate," says Pette Zarmakoupis, M.D., an ob-gyn and director of the Kentucky Center for Reproductive Medicine, in Lexington. But since basal body temperature can be thrown off by a number of things, such as illness, don't rely on it alone.

3. Step up sex before ovulation. As soon as you pick up a hormonal surge, have sex that day, plus the next two days. Pregnancy rates peak two days before ovulation, says Clarice Weinberg, Ph.D., chief of biostatistics at the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences. Some experts speculate that's when cervical mucus is at its optimum for helping sperm travel to the egg and break down its shell-like coating.

Sperm can live inside the uterus for 24 to 48 hours, which means there will be plenty on hand to greet the egg once ovulation starts.

Another reason to have sex before you ovulate, as opposed to the day it happens: An egg survives for only 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, so if you begin to ovulate in the morning and wait until nighttime to have sex, the egg may lose its viability by the time the sperm gets to it. In addition, says Dr. Zarmakoupis, cervical mucus starts to become thick and impenetrable right after ovulation, rendering it "hostile" to the passage of sperm.

4. Enjoy yourself. "The most important thing to remember is to keep sex fun," says Felicia Stewart, M.D., coauthor of Understanding Your Body: Every Woman's Guide to Gynecology and Health. When it becomes a chore, it's easy to view sex as just one more item on your to-do list.

5. Give it time. Barring fertility problems and other conditions or habits that can interfere with conception, half of all couples get pregnant within six months, says Dr. Stewart, and 85 percent do so within a year.

Hygiene to protection, imagination to communication, sleep and relaxation, here's what can help your relationship.

1. Brush your teeth before you get to bed. Not kidding. Seriously, a clean mouth is sexier than the sexiest lingerie. Clean smelling breath, freshly washed skin, clean teeth to slide one's tongue along… you get the drift? And while you are at it, you may want to wash your hands and feet as well so if your partner wants to nibble at your toes, suck your fingers or lick your wrists, they don't have to think twice about it. Maintaining basic personal hygiene will make you feel sexier too. Don't obsess about it!

2. Be playful. Sex is meant to be fun, so be playful, be naughty, lighten up, laugh, tickle each other-in short, don't make it into a serious business and take all the joy out of it. Be creative, try new places, positions, times of day, ways of doing. Let your imagination and your desire free. Don't censor your fantasies. Or they may remain only fantasies if you prefer them to stay that way. Either way is fine.

3. Communicate. Be frank and forthright with your partner about what you enjoy and what you don't. If you are shy to put it into words, show it through your actions. Your physical responses to your partner's acts can convey your enjoyment or lack of it. Of course, if you can put it into words, there are fewer chances of miscommunication. And it gives your partner permission to share the same. Remember, this can change-one day you may enjoy a particular act and another day want to do it differently. Your partner is not a mind-reader, so you need to communicate.

4. Stay safe. Use protection. It is a sign of trust, not of mistrust. And a sign that you care for your partner as much as you care about yourself. To avoid unwanted pregnancy and/or infections, condoms are best. If you are gay or lesbian or swing both ways, you still need protection. Use it regularly. Make using protection sexy by integrating it into love-play and keep it handy so you don't interrupt the spontaneity by needing to jump out of bed to get it.

5. Rest up. Sometimes all one needs to rejuvenate a flagging sex life is wholesome rest. Tiring work or home routines may leave one feeling blah about sex, like it's just too much of an effort. Make time for yourself (Me Time), get enough rest and have sex when you are feeling fresh and alert, not when you are tired. A negative experience can make one feel more resistant to having sex the next time around. It's quality, not frequency, that matters.

6. Keep worries out of the bedroom. And your work-related and social networking gizmos as well. If you are constantly on Twitter or WhatsApp or whatever, or worrying about the washing machine or dal and subzi, your partner may feel secondary. Not good for setting up a seduction scene at all. Focus your attention on your partner. It's easy to tell when someone's mind is wandering and that is a turn off for sure.

7. No sex is fine too. There's nothing wrong with not having sex. Don't pressurise yourself or compare yourself with anyone else. There may be phases when you just don't feel like it. That is fine too, as long as you can communicate with your partner about it and show that you love and desire them in other ways. A sensuous kiss or loving hug does not need to turn into anything else if you don't want it to, and it still conveys passion and desire. And if you are single, who says you can't have fun alone if you want?