As curiosity is part of our genetic makeup, most men remain curious as to what turns a woman on. What spot can we touch to drive her absolutely crazy? Well gentlemen, today's your lucky day because I have the top 10 answers.

top 10 tantalizers

Let's get started on our journey through a woman's body, shall we?

10. Inner Thighs

Contrary to popular belief, tantric sex is not kinky business. The basic goal of tantric sex is that there is none, and the only point is to connect deeply and spiritually with your partner. The climax or orgasm itself is not the priority; instead, the journey of exploration, learning about each other and building a stronger, more intimate relationship is paramount. 



You need lots of time: 
Tantric sex does not mean that you have to make love for hours. “Instead, enlightenment and having 
a reverence for your partner that lasts beyond the length of any orgasm is at the core of the teachings,” say Mark A Michaels and Patricia Johnson in their book Tantric Sex Made Simple. “It’s funny that a comment Sting made over 20 years ago still has an enduring hold on the public’s imagination. He’s tried to explain it away in various ways. At one point, he said that he regretted making the statement and didn’t really feel he could talk about the subject beyond saying that his wife, Trudy, is his church. That’s much closer to what the spirit of tantric sex is all about. It’s certainly got nothing 
to do with bragging about staying power.” 

You need to be flexible: 
The idea behind tantric sex is to fuse the male body, mind and soul. This can be achieved  by controlling your breathing, while your partner controls his, making love in certain positions so that you are face to face and looking at each other, and stimulating one another to prolong the whole sexual process. 

It seeks to not only reach the ultimate level of pleasure by deferring both his and your orgasms, but also to become closer with your partner and understanding each others’ bodies better. The tantric approach has far more to do with your mental approach than with technique. Difficult positions are not 
necessarily the key to tantric sex. “Concentrating on simple positions, which are enjoyable to both of 
you, will help prolong the erection and contribute to escalate the pleasure further,” says Delhi-based 
sexologist Dr Vinod Raina. 

It’s for weirdos: 
In their book, Mark and Patricia say, “Tantric sex has more to do with your attitude than anything else, so a simple shift in thinking is all it takes.” In India, not only are most women completely unaware of the concept of tantric sex, but are also worried there are stigmas attached to it. “Tantric sex seems like 
an intriguing, if pretty out-there, concept to me,” says architect Hetal Punari. “I haven’t tried it only because I’m not entirely sure of what it is. Once I know all about it, I might be game.”

TRY THIS AT HOME 
Mumbai-based sex counsellor Dr Uttam Dave shares some steps to get you started. 

- Sit naked with your partner, cross-legged, surrounded by pillows. The room should be dark or dimly lit with candles. Play some soft music
- Look deep into each other’s eyes. Don’t stare, but look at him in a way to tell him that he’s wonderful.
- Breathe in sync.
- Keep your hands two inches from his body initially and receive the energy he is exuding. Then slowly exchange this energy and start touching and stimulating each other.

Virginity myths exposed. Before you think about losing your virginity, make sure you haven't fallen for these myths.



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MYTH 1 - "YOU CAN TELL FROM A WOMAN'S HYMEN WHETHER SHE'S A VIRGIN."
Not even an experienced doctor can tell for sure if a woman is a virgin by looking at her hymen or vagina.


MYTH 2 - "YOU CAN LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY DOING SPORT OR USING TAMPONS."
You can only lose your virginity by having sex with another person. What can happen is that your hymen stretches a bit when you use tampons. And it could stretch or tear from doing sports like horse riding or gymnastics.

But whether you’re a virgin or not has nothing to do with the state of your hymen. It depends on whether you’ve had sex.


MYTH 3 - "A MAN CAN FEEL IF A WOMAN IS STILL A VIRGIN."
Boys and men who say they can feel whether a woman’s a virgin don’t know what they’re talking about. If a doctor can hardly ever tell for sure whether a woman is a virgin or not, there’s no way a man could really be able to feel it.

During sex, a man can tell if a woman is tense. If a woman is nervous or scared, she unconsciously tenses her vagina. This makes the opening of the vagina feel tight.


MYTH 4 - "A MAN NEEDS TO PUSH HARDER THE FIRST TIME."
If that’s what you think, you’ve got a lot to learn about lovemaking! The penis doesn’t have to ‘break through’ anything, it just has to slip into the vagina. If the woman is tense, the muscles of the vagina can feel tight. If that happens, pushing hard is the last thing you should be doing. The vaginal tissue is very tender and can be easily damaged, which can be very painful for the woman.

Be gentle, take your time, and keep stroking, kissing and caressing until the vagina is moist enough for your penis to slip in without pushing. Then sex will be pleasurable for both of you.

Getting pregnant maybe the easiest of all things, however, some couples do find it hard to conceive for several reasons, including weak or insufficient sperm count. 

In some cases, as when nature needs a boost, a little push from you and your partner can go a long way in getting pregnant. When it comes to the best position to get pregnant, the general rule is that the male sperm must be deposited as near to the female cervix as possible. 





This has something to do with the life spans of the female egg and the male sperm. Once an egg is released from the ovary - a stage also known as ovulation - it begins its path down the fallopian tube to the uterus. A released egg typically survives for only 24 hours, while a sperm can last anywhere from three to five days in the female body. As such, the egg has to be as close to the egg as possible so they can meet and join before the egg dies. 

While not a lot of people will agree that the sexual positions have anything to do with getting pregnant, the logical inference is that it makes sense to assume the position that can help the sperm meet the egg in the shortest possible time. 

This is especially true when for couples who have problems or difficulty conceiving. Having said this, the first "best position to get pregnant" tip is to avoid positions that least expose the cervix to the male sperm, and that generally defy gravity such as sex while standing up, sitting down, or with the woman on top. When trying to conceive, it is best to limit the amount of sperm that flows back out of the vagina. 

The woman's hips should also be positioned in such a way that the sperm released is kept inside, giving it enough time to swim up to the female cervix. 



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Consider the following positions instead: 

1. The missionary position. Or man-on-top is said to be the position that's best for getting pregnant. This is because this particular position allows for the deepest possible penetration, making it possible for the sperm to get deposited closest to the cervix. 

2. Raise the hips. Elevating the hips, which can be done by placing a pillow behind her, can also be helpful because this exposes the female cervix to as much semen as the male can release. 

3. Doggy-style. The rear-entry position where the man enters the woman from behind is also a recommended position. In this position, sperm is also deposited closest to the cervix, thereby helping increase the chances of conception. 

4. Side-by-side. You can also try having intercourse while lying side by side. This position likewise causes the most exposure of the cervix to the male sperm. 

5. Orgasms. Finally, while this has nothing to do with sexual positions, there are also researches that suggest the importance of the female orgasm in conceiving. According to studies, female orgasm leads to contractions that could push sperm up into the cervix. The lesson: have fun while trying to conceive. 

When is the best time to have sex if we're trying to conceive?

How do I know when I'm ovulating?

• Breast tenderness
• Slight feelings of discomfort in your middle abdomen
• Increased vaginal discharge that takes on a wetter, egg-white-type quality
• A slight increase (about 0.4 to 1 degree Fahrenheit) in basal body temperature, or BBT, which you can detect by taking your temperature each morning before you get out of bed, two days after you ovulate. You can get a good sense of your cycle if you chart your BBT for a few months.