You have sexual organs on the inside and outside. The word vagina is often used to describe the genitals or female sexual organs, but actually it is just a part of them. The vagina is the opening (tube) that connects the inside and outside female sexual organs.

VAGINA

The vagina is the passage between the vulva (the sexual organs on the outside) and the womb (uterus).

It’s where menstrual blood leaves the body, where the penis goes in during intercourse, and where a baby comes out when it's born.

The vagina is a muscular passageway lined with mucous membranes – skin which produces moisture, like the inside of your mouth. This moisture acts as a lubricant for sex, making it more comfortable and pleasurable, and it protects against infections.

When you get sexually aroused, your vagina becomes wetter and relaxes. This allows you to fit a finger or penis into the vagina. Because the vagina is a muscle, it can tense up or relax, and you can have some control over it.

Feel for yourself

Squeeze and release your muscles when you are urinating. You can have some control over the speed and amount of pee. These muscles are the same ones used to tighten the vagina. You can also use them during sex.
Take a mirror and look at the opening of your vagina. Use your fingers to feel what your vagina is like.
Put a finger inside your vagina. The inside feels soft like the inside of your cheeks, and also feels a bit bumpy like the top of your mouth.
Stroke your vagina and clitoris. See what feels nice and makes you feel aroused. This is how you can have an orgasm. Masturbation – sex on your own – is a good way to find out what you like. The better you know what turns you on, the easier you will find it to enjoy sex with another person.

PELVIC FLOOR

The pelvic floor muscles are the muscles around your anus, vagina and urethral opening, between your pubic bone and coccyx.

The pubic bone is the bone below your belly, just above your vagina. The coccyx, or tailbone, is the bottom of your back bone, just above your anus.

Feel for yourself

• Tense and relax your pelvic floor muscles. One way to see what this feels like is to stop your urine in mid-flow. You do that by tensing your pelvic floor muscles.
• You can feel the muscles around your vagina tense and relax with a finger.
• Put a finger inside your vagina, then squeeze the muscles around your vagina.

WOMB

The womb, or uterus, is where a baby can grow in your belly. It's like a bag made of strong muscle, quite low down in your belly.

When you're not pregnant it varies between 7.5 and 10cm (3 and 4 inches) in length. It’s shaped like an upside down pear.

The inner lining of the womb is where a fertilised egg can develop into a baby. To be able to hold the baby, the uterus can stretch to become as big as 31cm (12 inches) in length.

The womb is also where blood comes from when you have your period. If no fertilized egg fixes itself to the lining of the womb, the uterus sheds its lining and it comes out of the vagina as blood.

Cervix - feel for yourself

The cervix is the entrance to the womb. You can feel it yourself by putting a finger right inside your vagina. Your cervix is all the way at the end. It’s smooth and firm, like the tip of your nose.

You might have trouble reaching it if you’re aroused, because then it moves up to make the vagina longer.

OVARIES AND MORE

Ovaries

The ovaries are on either side of the womb. They produce egg cells and hormones – oestrogen and progesterone. Oestrogen is the hormone that tells your body to change during puberty, so you develop breasts and become sexually mature. Along with oestrogen, progesterone makes the lining of the womb get thicker during menstruation and pregnancy.

Fallopian tubes

The fallopian tubes, one on each side of the womb, join the ovaries to the womb. They carry unfertilised eggs from the ovaries to the womb (uterus).

Egg cells

All women are born with around 250,000 unfertilised eggs in their ovaries. That means the egg that might one day grow to become your son or daughter is already somewhere inside your ovaries when you are born! The eggs are the size of a very small pinhead.

Ovulation

When you reach puberty, hormones start signalling to the ovaries to release one unfertilised egg cell every month – roughly 28 days. This is called ovulation. The egg then travels down the fallopian tube.

If a sperm cell gets to the egg to fertilise it, it will fasten itself to the lining of the womb and start growing into a baby. If it isn’t fertilised, it will just come out of your vagina with the blood when you have your period.

Around the time of ovulation, you are at your most ‘fertile’ – able to get pregnant. This means five days before or one day after your ovulation.

It's to be a long time that you didn't read new article based on the relationships and love, actually we were busy in reading some new research based on personality, love, relationships etc.

If the girl gets too wet during sex it can reduce the friction to the point where you don't really feel anything." I had no idea!) Anyway, inspired by his work, I decided to write a primer for female virgins. Because although women usually learn the basics through friends (or magazines like Cosmo), there are still aspects of sex that we're forced to learn the hard way. After the jump, the five things about sex most other women are too prudish or ashamed to share.

1.) It Feels Better Without a Condom

You know, people really get on their high horse when it comes to using condoms. Here's the thing: You know those PSAs or HBO Families in Crisis movies about the importance of safe sex? And there's always a guy who's like slimy and tries to sweet-talk his girlfriend into having sex without a condom because "it feels better." Well, he's right. It totally does feel better. I know, know! Condoms are important for many reasons and you should wear them. But for me, it feels way more natural without one and I'm much less likely to get a UTI. And if he re-ups and is able to fuck you again, and you guys go through with foreplay again, it doesn't taste as gross when you go down on him.

2.) Queefing

We've been over this. But in addition to what was already discussed, I'd like to add that you probably won't need to worry about queefing the first time, because most likely, you're so new down there that you're pretty much airtight.

3.) Location, Location, Location

Your pussy is prime real estate. If your body were a Monopoly board, your clit and vadge would be Boardwalk. A lot of guys don't know what the hell they're doing, and sometimes they just poke their dick around blindly. Make sure you guide them to the front hole, 'cause If he accidentally jams it in your butt or your taint, and you're not ready for it, you're not gonna like the way it feels. Trust! Which brings me to number four...

4.) Lube, Lube, Lube

This is seriously the most important thing for D in the V. (Or B...but no butts yet, I said!) Ideally, you want to be so turned on that your vadge is naturally wet, but that might not happen the first few times, for whatever reason (nervousness, fear, etc.) So just make sure you have a bunch of lube on hand. However, if you got a lot of bottled lube down there, you shouldn't attempt doggy style, because all that stuff will get in your pee hole and it will give you the mother of all UTIs.

5.) Tampons Will Fit Better After

No joke. They really will. I was never able to get tampons up there before I lost my virginity, probably because I was too tense whenever I tried. But the weekend after I did it for the first time (and the second, and third, and fourth, and so on), I decided to try to insert a slender/regular, even though I didn't have my period. Not nearly as much resistance and I was able to get the entire thing up there.

So there you go! Now, if you ever get around to it, you won't be so lost when you actually try to fuck. Just remember to be safe and wear a condom. (Even though, yeah, it feels better without it.)

To get pregnant faster have sex three times a week.

Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.

To get pregnant faster have sex before ovulation (not after).

Don’t rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.

Don't rely on fertility charting alone to predict ovulation.

Before you start trying to get pregnant see your doctor.

A new study has found that women want to be bedded by experienced men, but men prefer to have women who have had no experience whatsoever.

According to a study for MSN, women prefer the likes of serial-dater George Clooney, while men go for girl-next-door types such as Holly Willoughby or Myleene Klass over sex sirens, the Daily Star reported.


The study also found that 1 in 10 men want to have bedded at least 11 women before meeting their ideal partner and just 5 percent women wish they had slept with more than 10 men before meeting their life partner. The findings also showed that both the sexes prefer witty partners.

The nation now knows the precise size of publicist Max Clifford’s penis, after it was read it out in court. But does size matter to most women? Claire Cohen reports.

Pencil penis. Lovemuscle. Trouser snake. Third leg. Stubby.
Remember all those playground names for the male appendage, big and small?
Max Clifford probably does.



This week, the celebrity agent had the size of his manhood dissected by four women in court, during his trial for indecent assault. Each gave a conflicting report, ranging from 'enormous' to the less flattering 'micropenis'.
Clifford's counsel hit back.


A doctor had measured his penis, explained barrister Richard Horwell QC, at five and a quarter inches when soft. "Not freakishly small and certainly not enormous."
So far, so flaccid.
But it is food for thought. I mean, when was the last time you actually thought properly - in metric terms - about penis size? Probably not since you had a ruler in your pencil case and giggled with friends over the 'average' dimensions described in the pages of Just 17. Right?
While the Sex and the City girls might have kiss and told over brunch (I distinctly remember Samantha describing one penis as like "a wall of flesh coming towards me" - terrifying for a virgin), should the rest of us even care?

Those who subscribe to a romantic view, don't. If you love someone then it's what they do with it that counts. After all, historically we wouldn't have got a glimpse at the goods before our wedding night. You just had to stick with what you got.

A quick survey of friends shows what I fully expected: we're all different. Some favour length, others girth. One just wants something inoffensive that won't "catch my eye when he's getting out of the shower". Who knows? Maybe we all have different parameters too, hence the wildly varying descriptions at Clifford's trial.
What I do know, is that few women want to unzip something porn-star sized. One friend described her alarm when confronted with a penis "like a can of Diet Coke, or the girth of a fist."
Which makes it all the more strange when I hear men talk about trimming their pubic hair in order to appear larger. All this says to me is that penis size is a peculiarly male obsession.
Think about it - all those jokes about showboating in locker rooms, or size comparison at the urinals continue long into adulthood, while women have long since shelved the rulers.
My straight female friends have no idea what the exact size of their other halves' bits are.
So, chaps, a piece of advice: it's just a penis. Use what you have; or use something else.