As curiosity is part of our genetic makeup, most men remain curious as to what turns a woman on. What spot can we touch to drive her absolutely crazy? Well gentlemen, today's your lucky day because I have the top 10 answers.

top 10 tantalizers

Let's get started on our journey through a woman's body, shall we?

10. Inner Thighs

STYLES & TRENDS

You have sexual organs on the inside and outside. The word vagina is often used to describe the genitals or female sexual organs, but actually it is just a part of them. The vagina is the opening (tube) that connects the inside and outside female sexual organs.

VAGINA

The vagina is the passage between the vulva (the sexual organs on the outside) and the womb (uterus).

It’s where menstrual blood leaves the body, where the penis goes in during intercourse, and where a baby comes out when it's born.

The vagina is a muscular passageway lined with mucous membranes – skin which produces moisture, like the inside of your mouth. This moisture acts as a lubricant for sex, making it more comfortable and pleasurable, and it protects against infections.

When you get sexually aroused, your vagina becomes wetter and relaxes. This allows you to fit a finger or penis into the vagina. Because the vagina is a muscle, it can tense up or relax, and you can have some control over it.

Feel for yourself

Squeeze and release your muscles when you are urinating. You can have some control over the speed and amount of pee. These muscles are the same ones used to tighten the vagina. You can also use them during sex.
Take a mirror and look at the opening of your vagina. Use your fingers to feel what your vagina is like.
Put a finger inside your vagina. The inside feels soft like the inside of your cheeks, and also feels a bit bumpy like the top of your mouth.
Stroke your vagina and clitoris. See what feels nice and makes you feel aroused. This is how you can have an orgasm. Masturbation – sex on your own – is a good way to find out what you like. The better you know what turns you on, the easier you will find it to enjoy sex with another person.

PELVIC FLOOR

The pelvic floor muscles are the muscles around your anus, vagina and urethral opening, between your pubic bone and coccyx.

The pubic bone is the bone below your belly, just above your vagina. The coccyx, or tailbone, is the bottom of your back bone, just above your anus.

Feel for yourself

• Tense and relax your pelvic floor muscles. One way to see what this feels like is to stop your urine in mid-flow. You do that by tensing your pelvic floor muscles.
• You can feel the muscles around your vagina tense and relax with a finger.
• Put a finger inside your vagina, then squeeze the muscles around your vagina.

WOMB

The womb, or uterus, is where a baby can grow in your belly. It's like a bag made of strong muscle, quite low down in your belly.

When you're not pregnant it varies between 7.5 and 10cm (3 and 4 inches) in length. It’s shaped like an upside down pear.

The inner lining of the womb is where a fertilised egg can develop into a baby. To be able to hold the baby, the uterus can stretch to become as big as 31cm (12 inches) in length.

The womb is also where blood comes from when you have your period. If no fertilized egg fixes itself to the lining of the womb, the uterus sheds its lining and it comes out of the vagina as blood.

Cervix - feel for yourself

The cervix is the entrance to the womb. You can feel it yourself by putting a finger right inside your vagina. Your cervix is all the way at the end. It’s smooth and firm, like the tip of your nose.

You might have trouble reaching it if you’re aroused, because then it moves up to make the vagina longer.

OVARIES AND MORE

Ovaries

The ovaries are on either side of the womb. They produce egg cells and hormones – oestrogen and progesterone. Oestrogen is the hormone that tells your body to change during puberty, so you develop breasts and become sexually mature. Along with oestrogen, progesterone makes the lining of the womb get thicker during menstruation and pregnancy.

Fallopian tubes

The fallopian tubes, one on each side of the womb, join the ovaries to the womb. They carry unfertilised eggs from the ovaries to the womb (uterus).

Egg cells

All women are born with around 250,000 unfertilised eggs in their ovaries. That means the egg that might one day grow to become your son or daughter is already somewhere inside your ovaries when you are born! The eggs are the size of a very small pinhead.

Ovulation

When you reach puberty, hormones start signalling to the ovaries to release one unfertilised egg cell every month – roughly 28 days. This is called ovulation. The egg then travels down the fallopian tube.

If a sperm cell gets to the egg to fertilise it, it will fasten itself to the lining of the womb and start growing into a baby. If it isn’t fertilised, it will just come out of your vagina with the blood when you have your period.

Around the time of ovulation, you are at your most ‘fertile’ – able to get pregnant. This means five days before or one day after your ovulation.

Breasts come in all shapes and sizes. Nipples also vary a lot, both in size and colour. Often breasts are uneven in size or shape. Around the age of 20, the difference often begins to even out.
Breasts are mainly made up of the glands that produce milk, which are joined to the nipple by tubes. The glands are surrounded by fatty tissue.



Each month, hormones get your breasts ready for pregnancy. They get a bit larger and more sensitive. After your period they go back to their usual size and shape.

BREAST SIZES

Some girls feel unhappy about their breasts' size. They wish they were bigger or smaller or firmer. The size or shape of your breasts has nothing to do with their sensitivity: small breasts are just as sensitive as big ones. Your breasts – their shape and size – are determined by your genes. The shape is also influenced by the surrounding muscles.

You may notice your breasts get bigger or smaller if you put on or lose weight. The size of your breasts can depend on the time of the month, and may also be affected by hormonal contraceptives.

FAQS ABOUT BREASTS

Can I make my breasts grow bigger? 

There is no proof that any exercises can make your breasts grow bigger, and certainly no proof that creams or sprays can do it. The only possibility is plastic surgery – you can have your breasts enlarged artificially.

Is it normal to have hair growing on my breasts?

Yes. Almost all girls have some hair on their breasts from very light, fine fuzz to stray hairs near their nipple region or in-between the breasts.

If you want to get rid of the hair, plucking is the best option for a few stray hairs. Dip your tweezers in some rubbing alcohol to disinfect them and pluck each hair. You can wipe your skin with rubbing alcohol to prevent infection, and smooth on some moisturising lotion. Shaving can cause ingrown hairs.

If you have lots of hair, you can try to wax the area, but it is better to use depilatory cream. Waxing may burn your skin, and unless you exfoliate, you can also get ingrown hairs.

My breasts are sore - why?

When breasts begin to develop during puberty, sometimes they feel a bit sore. They can also feel sore and swollen just before your period.

Is it normal to have nipple discharge?

Yes. Breasts can produce fluid in different amounts throughout a young girl’s and woman’s life.

You should be concerned if the fluid:

Is red, pink, or brown in colour
Comes out all the time (unless you’re pregnant)
Appears only in one breast

Trying to get pregnant can be a super-exciting time for a couple. Sex feels really special when you know it could be the start of a new life. But if things don’t happen like they're supposed to, it can turn into a nightmare.

Do…

…have lots of sex (at the right time)

This seems to be a bit of a no-brainer. Of course you can just take the simple approach of having lots of sex all the time – nothing wrong with that! But if you want to maximise your chances, there is a crucial aspect to it: you need to have sex at the right time of the month.

To find out when you are ovulating, you need to monitor your menstrual cycle. Some women do that simply by writing down the dates of their periods and then estimate their ovulation. This happens generally around the 14th day after the first day of the period.

The egg is only ready for conception for 12 to 24 hours, so it's important to time it accurately. That gets difficult if you have an irregular cycle. The good news is that sperm can survive for a few days after intercourse. This means they can lurk around waiting for an egg to pop out. So you don't have to hit that 12 to 24 hour window period exactly to get pregnant.

There are also apps and online calculators to help you estimate when you are ovulating. Another way is to measure your temperature in the morning. At the time of ovulation, your body temperature rises slightly, because that makes conception easier. And yet another way is to look at your vaginal discharge. Around the time of ovulation, it tends to get a bit sticky and there’s more of it than usual.

...work on your lifestyle

There are some things you can't change. For example, the older you are, the more difficult it can be to conceive. But there are plenty of things in your life you can work on to make sure that getting pregnant gets easier.

Stop smoking and drinking – this goes for both women and men. Try to eat healthily and exercise regularly. You also should start cutting down on your coffee intake – lots of caffeine can lead to problems with your pregnancy. And make sure you get enough shut-eye. Being well-rested can make the first few months of pregnancy a bit less exhausting.

Also, if either you or your partner or both of you are significantly overweight or underweight, it can make you less fertile. So it might be a good idea to try get to a healthier weight.

In general, now is the time you need to take good care of your body to prepare it for the coming months.

…keep track of him as well!

Obviously, it takes two people to get pregnant. But many women forget that that it's not only their own health they need to keep in mind to increase the chances of becoming pregnant. Taking care of your partner is equally important. Being over- or underweight, stressed or having a medical condition can affect the man's body's ability to produce sperm, so it's important to look out for anything unusual.

And keep his testicles cool! Testicles need to be a bit below body temperature to make sperm. So don’t wear tight underpants or trousers that make your testicles too hot. And avoid having hot baths.

Lastly, please don't forget that your partner is the person you love, and not just a sperm-producer. Keep your relationship and the sex fun, and don't make getting pregnant a stressful exercise for either of you!

Don't...

…forget to take folic acid

Folic acid, (also known as folate or vitamin B9), is a vitamin that helps your baby’s spine to develop properly, and reduces the risk of a condition called spina bifida. Spina bifida means that the baby’s spine doesn’t close up properly, which can cause a range of disabilities.

So you should start taking folic acid tablets as soon as you decide you want to try for a baby. It’s best to take it while you’re trying to get pregnant and for the first three months of pregnancy. If you get pregnant and you haven’t been taking it, just start straight away.

Natural sources are green leafy vegetables and whole grains. But it's almost impossible to get the amount you need to make a difference through food alone. You can buy the tablets over the counter at a pharmacists or drug story. And while generally it's not advisable to go for over-the-counter supplements without asking your doctor first, you are okay to take this one. The recommended dose is 400 micrograms a day.

...believe the myths

There are no sex positions that make it more likely that you will get pregnant. And don't believe that positions like standing up, or eating red meat and salty snacks will increase your chances of having a baby boy, or having sex while there is a full moon for a baby girl. All myths! The sex of the baby depends on genetics and biology, not on who initiates sex or the foods you eat.

But lying still on the bed for about 15 minutes after sex is a good idea. No need to keep your legs in the air though – that’s another myth.

Also, taking the pill, or using other birth control methods long-term won't impact your fertility. It might take a few months for your cycle to get back to normal. But infertility is not a result of using birth control.

… wait too long to see a specialist

If you have tried to get pregnant for more than a year without success, you shouldn't hesitate you discuss your issues with a doctor or a pregnancy or fertility specialist. They can identify any problems and help you and your partner find ways that might make it easier to get pregnant. Especially women over the age of 35 seem to benefit from specialist help if they have trouble getting pregnant.

Having said that, don’t forget that it’s just as likely to be the man as the woman who is having the fertility problem. And when it comes to starting fertility testing, it’s much easier to test a man than it is to test a woman.

Also, if you have trouble getting pregnant, don't rely on home remedies or over-the-counter pills and herbal supplements to help you unless they have been approved by your doctor. Some of them can actually have a negative impact on your cycle.

And most importantly, don't blame yourself if you can't get pregnant.

It might sound strange but some of my guy friends are not so comfortable around pregnant women and their awkwardness comes out in different ways. Here are three characters I have seen that suddenly appear when interacting with pregnant women.



I’m at the point in my life now where many of my friends have already gotten married and are now looking to start families of their own. In fact, some of these newlywed couples have started taking their first steps to create new families and this means every once in a while, I meet a friend/wife of a friend who is pregnant for the first time.

Now this does not really cause me much concern because I am an elder brother to three other boys all of whom are at least five years younger than me. But some of my friends are damn weird around pregnant women.

The Chatty Companion

So many men I know have gone with this stereotype which must seem endearing if a little bit strange to pregnant women. The Chatty Companion is a man who acknowledges a woman’s pregnancy by talking about it constantly.

Whether it is asking what she can or cannot do during pregnancy, talking about how beautiful the process seems to him or even relating the personal journey of a sister/mother/aunt/brother’s wife to the woman standing in front him.

This chatty fellow will probably talk till the cows come home so be a good friend and save him from himself! Just make sure he doesn’t ask any extremely personal questions or veer into morbid topics.

The Protector

The sight of a pregnant woman who might be a co-worker, friend’s wife or even just a friend is enough to turn certain men into bodyguards. Like somebody, who has taken Bhai-Dooj or Raksha Bandhan too seriously, the protector moves fast to ensure the safety and comfort of his pregnant relation.

He tends to be a bit over-enthusiastic by insisting on helping her up the stairs, carrying even something as light as her purse for her and making sure that nobody stands in her way while she is walking.

I’m sure a lot of pregnant women really appreciate the effort that the Protector makes but sometimes it is a bit too enthusiastic and can be somewhat irritating. I mean, a lot of women would like to carry their own purses, pregnant or not pregnant – thank you very much.

The Pseudo Doctor

This one is a bit more curious than the other ones because for some reason he feels personally responsible for the child. I had a friend once who was convinced that he would have to deliver the baby himself because he would be alone with his sister-in-law at home.

These guys dispense a lot of medical advice such as which time it is appropriate to eat aamla every day and what the pregnant lady should avoid eating altogether. Like a lot of quack pregnancy books, this unsolicited and thoroughly serious advice is best avoided.

To me, pregnant women are pretty much the same as regular people and they don’t need special attention from you unless you ask for it. That’s what I have learned through my experiences with them.

Go ahead and be happy for them because that’s all the support they usually need.

It's to be a long time that you didn't read new article based on the relationships and love, actually we were busy in reading some new research based on personality, love, relationships etc.

If the girl gets too wet during sex it can reduce the friction to the point where you don't really feel anything." I had no idea!) Anyway, inspired by his work, I decided to write a primer for female virgins. Because although women usually learn the basics through friends (or magazines like Cosmo), there are still aspects of sex that we're forced to learn the hard way. After the jump, the five things about sex most other women are too prudish or ashamed to share.

1.) It Feels Better Without a Condom

You know, people really get on their high horse when it comes to using condoms. Here's the thing: You know those PSAs or HBO Families in Crisis movies about the importance of safe sex? And there's always a guy who's like slimy and tries to sweet-talk his girlfriend into having sex without a condom because "it feels better." Well, he's right. It totally does feel better. I know, know! Condoms are important for many reasons and you should wear them. But for me, it feels way more natural without one and I'm much less likely to get a UTI. And if he re-ups and is able to fuck you again, and you guys go through with foreplay again, it doesn't taste as gross when you go down on him.

2.) Queefing

We've been over this. But in addition to what was already discussed, I'd like to add that you probably won't need to worry about queefing the first time, because most likely, you're so new down there that you're pretty much airtight.

3.) Location, Location, Location

Your pussy is prime real estate. If your body were a Monopoly board, your clit and vadge would be Boardwalk. A lot of guys don't know what the hell they're doing, and sometimes they just poke their dick around blindly. Make sure you guide them to the front hole, 'cause If he accidentally jams it in your butt or your taint, and you're not ready for it, you're not gonna like the way it feels. Trust! Which brings me to number four...

4.) Lube, Lube, Lube

This is seriously the most important thing for D in the V. (Or B...but no butts yet, I said!) Ideally, you want to be so turned on that your vadge is naturally wet, but that might not happen the first few times, for whatever reason (nervousness, fear, etc.) So just make sure you have a bunch of lube on hand. However, if you got a lot of bottled lube down there, you shouldn't attempt doggy style, because all that stuff will get in your pee hole and it will give you the mother of all UTIs.

5.) Tampons Will Fit Better After

No joke. They really will. I was never able to get tampons up there before I lost my virginity, probably because I was too tense whenever I tried. But the weekend after I did it for the first time (and the second, and third, and fourth, and so on), I decided to try to insert a slender/regular, even though I didn't have my period. Not nearly as much resistance and I was able to get the entire thing up there.

So there you go! Now, if you ever get around to it, you won't be so lost when you actually try to fuck. Just remember to be safe and wear a condom. (Even though, yeah, it feels better without it.)